I’ve got a bone to pick. Several airlines (mostly in the east, and namely Air Asia and Malaysian airlines) have instituted child-free areas on some of their planes. Interesting concept. Now, I have kids, and I’m not wild about flying with them and I’m even less wild about flying around someone else’s kid on the rare occasion when I don’t have my own, who doesn’t want to enjoy their child-free time? But, I’m not sure I agree with the whole precedent. From my point of view, that of a mother often flying with two children, airlines would be better off creating child-friendly zones rather than child-free zones. Seriously. A happy child flying is a gazillion times less obnoxious than a drunk businessman flying, and if you’re making the child happy you’ve got happy parents flying and happy parents buy more tickets. When I get on a plane with my husband and two kids, whichever class I happen to be flying in at the moment I’ve just spent almost four times as much as the person flying alone next to me. Because kids practically pay full price.
And unless they’re making their child-free zones sound proof, it’s really just a marketing scheme because I can tell you, from direct experience, that if there’s a screaming baby in the middle of economy class you can hear him all the way at the head of the plane. So why not make the baby more comfortable, and his parents more relaxed, so he isn’t screaming through the entire flight and everyone can sleep.
Starting in the airports, with dedicated lines at security, where they scan strollers without having to close them and lift them onto the machine and preferential lines, not for the businessman and his teeny tiny laptop case, but for the frazzled mother travelling alone who has managed to take the concept of multitasking to a whole new level but could still actually do with some help. With amenities on the plane as well as basic necessities like diapers and milk, baby food and snacks because accidents happen, you can forget something and your child doesn’t have to go dirty and hungry for 6 hours. They remember to stock the gin, they can remember to stock the milk. (Like Japan Airlines does, and Lufthansa) Make us pay for them, but make them available. Slightly larger bathrooms, so my toddler and I can both fit in there. Games and tv programs, specific seats for children so they can actually sleep and not drive everyone around them batshit crazy because it’s two in the morning and they can’t fall asleep sitting up (like the SkyCouch on Air New Zealand).
I’d gladly pay for my child to fly more comfortably, and any parent who’s ever had to travel with a young child would, I’m sure, pick the airline that made their flight more pleasant. After all, all these children that are such a nuisance, such an annoyance on flights, are future customers in the making.
And let’s talk about us parents. Flying is nerve-wracking. You’re wrestling your kids through a crowded airport with more luggage than a football team, you’re afraid of loosing your children and your sanity along with your flight. You’re stressed and that stress is going to make your kids go apeshit. Wouldn’t it be marvelous to know that you’re flying with a company that wants your business and wants to make you comfortable rather than the douchebag flying alone and giving you the evil eye when you and your brood make your way down his aisle, like his mere presence is somehow more relevant, more important, more untouchable than your own?
Airlines shouldn’t be making child-free zones, they should be making child-friendly zones. I’m betting there’s more money in it for them at the end of the day, because any parent is going to gladly spend that extra dollar if it makes their own experience more comfortable. And everyone else on the plane gets to be more comfortable right along with them. Win-win.
Because the next step is child-free flights, I vote for asshole free flights, how about you?
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OMG I love you! YES, YES and YES!!!
Ha, ha, I knew you would totally understand!
You are so right!
I honestly don’t understand why airlines aren’t more child-oriented already. What are they waiting for?
I love you. I’m not kidding. Brilliant. And asshole free flights? Yes, please.
I’m hoping to extend that to other areas of life, like asshole free roads, asshole free government offices, asshole free lines at starbucks…
We fly Lufthansa internationally, and we love them for this reason. They love kids. They give them toys. They talk to them. They really make you feel like you are a customer they aim to please. I so wish they flew in the US.
I have to see if it flies into Houston cause I’m just about ready to switch from Air France which is the airline I usually use. The problem though isn’t just the airline, it’s the airport and the entire travel experience…
Also? Some mean dude once turned around and yelled at my innocent 4 year old for kicking his seat. It was actually me trying to get his coloring books from under the seat because this man had his chair ALL THE WAY BACK the whole mother lovin’ flight (10+ hours). My sons learned Mommy doesn’t let anyone yell at her kids.
Good for mommy, and great lesson for your kids. Remember the days when the guy in front of you keeping his seat all the way back did not necessarily mean you were going to have a miserable flight. I miss the 80’s when planes were less full and leg room meant you actually had room to move your legs!
Although my children are married, I so agree with you. I have often tried to help out a frazzled mom when I am flying. They really do need to cater to kids. As for assholes??? Every flight has one or two. let’s get them a seat in baggage!
Or maybe just designated flights for assholes so they can all annoy each other. Isn’t it an unfortunate sign of the times when the only ones helping frazzled mothers are other mothers?
Yep, I am right behind you. In fact the airline I worked for had a Sky Nanny. She was on board solely to entertain children and make it a bit easier for parents on longer flights. I am all about smoke free and such venues. But when it comes to people it is discounting to ostracise anyone.
Oh Yes! You’re right in so many ways. I especially like the part about asshole-free flights. I’d book them. For an extra charge.
I know! Who wouldn’t!? Especially now, with the holidays coming up!